176: When High Expectations Debilitate You

Having high expectations isn’t a bad thing, until they no longer are achievable and as a result, debilitate you. Tune in to hear my story of how I dealt with the reality of not being able to live the life I once had and adjusted my mindset and action steps to reach new heights in a more manageable way under those new circumstances.

 When High Expectations Debilitate YouQuotables

  • I am going to treat myself better and give myself space to be imperfect.
  • I take my worst attribute and do what I can to avoid it coming to the surface and in doing so that behavior becomes my best attribute.
  • High expectations are great but when they don’t match and take into consideration the circumstances of the moment, they are dead expectations.
  • It’s not that I am LESS THAN, I just have a different set of circumstances that alter my expectations.
  • I came into this moment of clarity on a pity party and left on a party bus.
  • I am not incapable of doing what I have done before. I just have to do it differently.
  • The best thing you can do is be real about what you’re facing.
  • I am not a lesser version of me, I am the best version of me in this circumstance.

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I am a teacher trainer and coach. Working elbow to elbow with teachers and teacher leaders to ensure instructional proficiency and student achievement soar lights me up. We have a real need in our nation for strong educators to remain in the field. My blog, book, podcast, courses and instructional materials are geared towards empowering teachers (and those that lead them) to receive the support needed to grow and thrive today, tomorrow and always.