Student to Student Appreciation

At the end of every school year I do the same activity with my class. It’s a way to say “thank you” and celebrate individual attributes. I got the idea from a story I read while I was in college. I apologize to the author as I cannot remember the source. I also apologize that I cannot give credit to the amazing person in the story- the true HERO.

The Story (the abbreviated version): A soldier was fighting in a war and brought with him a very special good luck charm. It was a folded piece of paper that traveled everywhere with him. On this piece of paper was positive remarks about himself made by his elementary school classmates. Each student wrote a sentence about what they appreciated about him. He treasured this so much that it never left his side. He successfully made it home from the war and believes the good luck charm was the reason. He forever treasures that piece of paper and the encouraging words written on it.

For this reason, I feel it is important for my students to have the same treasured experience. Every person deserves to know they are loved and cared for, and this is the perfect way to do it!

I gave each of my students a piece of paper. They decorated the top and border whatever way they wished. They then numbered their paper 1-20, skipping a line in-between. Each student rotated to another student’s desk with a pencil and wrote one positive comment. Rotations lasted anywhere from 1-3 minutes. I even participated too- the kids looooved that! J Once students had visited each other’s seats, they returned to read their heart-warming gift. There were tears, laughter, and lots of hugging. Sometimes you never know what someone thinks of you- why not let them know?

   

I encourage you all to do this in a way that works for you! Then, let me know how it goes!

 

Do you do something similar? I’d love to hear it. Share pics too!

About the author, Gretchen

I am a teacher trainer and coach. Working elbow to elbow with teachers and teacher leaders to ensure instructional proficiency and student achievement soar lights me up. We have a real need in our nation for strong educators to remain in the field. My blog, book, podcast, courses and instructional materials are geared towards empowering teachers (and those that lead them) to receive the support needed to grow and thrive today, tomorrow and always.

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